equilibrio de amor (The Balance of Love)

Wise men say “Choose the one who loves you; not the one you love”. I ask, in that case, who will “love” – if everyone is waiting to “be loved”!! And how anybody would be "loved" – if everyone is expecting to “be loved”. And what will happen to the love inside you. And if a “lovely” person turns up lucky enough to be “copiously loved”, then the regular generous shower of love will further screw the demand and supply graph. Love will accumulate without being vented out. So, in the name of restoring the balance of the weighing scales (if not for more obvious reasons that is); think it is healthy to distribute your love instead of letting it ferment. After all what fermentation leads to is illusive happiness.  In fine, just like its hard to avoid losing coz nobody is going to win all the time... It is hard to avoid “loving” coz nobody is going to “be loved” all the time.